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by illest
4 days ago
Forum: TUG Talk
Topic: Cross Dress domination
Replies: 7
Views: 2157

Re: Cross Dress domination




I definitely would like to crossdress and tie someone up. I'd like to be wearing a dom type outfit. Maybe a white silk bow blouse, black leather corset, short leather skirt and thigh high boots.


I read this in the vein of being crossdressed "by" you and tied up while you were wearing that ...
by illest
4 days ago
Forum: TUG Talk
Topic: bondage stuff you wish you could try
Replies: 34
Views: 37864

Re: bondage stuff you wish you could try

Ever since I've "come out the closet" to my wife regarding my crossdressing affinity(and just accepted in general that I have a pronounced feminine side in bondage), I have definitely been exploring things I want to try at least once. Some of these are complete fantasy btw.

-being bound sleep in a ...
by illest
4 days ago
Forum: TUG Talk
Topic: Cross Dress domination
Replies: 7
Views: 2157

Re: Cross Dress domination


I definitely would like to crossdress and tie someone up. I'd like to be wearing a dom type outfit. Maybe a white silk bow blouse, black leather corset, short leather skirt and thigh high boots.


I read this in the vein of being crossdressed "by" you and tied up while you were wearing that ...
by illest
1 week ago
Forum: TUG Talk
Topic: Funny/weirdest item I wore for bondage F
Replies: 4
Views: 677

Re: Funny/weirdest item I wore for bondage F

One of my go-tos occasionally during my crossdress bpndage sessions are bunny ears. Either pink or black depending on the outfit.
by illest
1 month ago
Forum: TUG Talk
Topic: Girls or Boys?
Replies: 42
Views: 28512

Re: Girls or Boys?



Boys always. Both as the captor and captive. Being gay or straight has got nothing to do with it. I don't know why so many have to bring sexuality into it.


I think people have different fetishes connected with being tied up. For some it's strictly for bondage itself and doesn't have to be ...
by illest
1 month ago
Forum: TUG Talk
Topic: Girls or Boys?
Replies: 42
Views: 28512

Re: Girls or Boys?

AH03 wrote: 2 years ago Girls and crossdressing feminine men.
This one. More into women but if a guy can pull off the CD look well enough and the scenario's not too explicit I like CDs just for the thought of implanting myself in their place.
by illest
1 month ago
Forum: TUG Talk
Topic: Embarrassing times (all)
Replies: 28
Views: 15156

Re: Embarrassing times (all)

What I'm hoping makes it easy is that due to how I already am irl it's not as much of a shock. Like even when we first started talking I was never the alpha male type. By any means I'm not zesty either, but I've always been shy and reserved. Also I'm not exactly alone when it comes to weirdness ...
by illest
1 month ago
Forum: TUG Talk
Topic: Embarrassing times (all)
Replies: 28
Views: 15156

Re: Embarrassing times (all)

Got one to add now. Came home for lunch and my wife giggled and said she found my pink bunny ears under the bed! Dammit! I went for the bunny schoolgirl look yesterday but I thought I had everything accounted for! Which of course she laughed as well when I expressed that.

Good grief, I went years ...
by illest
1 month ago
Forum: TUG Talk
Topic: Embarrassing times (all)
Replies: 28
Views: 15156

Re: Embarrassing times (all)



A update to this one, I've been super sloppy with my escapades lately 🤦‍♂️, to the point my wife definitely knows about my feminization kink now. At this point I'm not sure how much of it was unintentional and how much of it was kind of wanting to be found out. Last month was quite a bit ...
by illest
1 month ago
Forum: TUG Talk
Topic: A simple question
Replies: 5
Views: 1595

Re: A simple question

A lot of people have trouble separating fantasy from reality. I myself used to want to simulate various scenarios that I saw in artwork in my younger years which was one of the driving forces for learning self bondage. I wanted to learn deeper stuff like self suspension and tying my elbows tight ...
by illest
1 month ago
Forum: TUG Talk
Topic: Dilemma
Replies: 23
Views: 11260

Re: Dilemma


It's a constant self work about being comfortable and confident in who you are, and YES it is one of the hardest things to do.
Get it into your head. You aren't hurting anyone. You being "weird" means nothing, just accept yourself. You can be that and still fulfill your aspirations as a father and ...
by illest
1 month ago
Forum: TUG Talk
Topic: Cross Dress domination
Replies: 7
Views: 2157

Re: Cross Dress domination

I'm on both sides of the spectrum. While my submissive side wants to be crossdressed and tied by a woman, I can't say I've never thought of tying my wife up and dominating her as a woman either 😈
by illest
1 month ago
Forum: TUG Talk
Topic: Anyone Gagged While Reading This?
Replies: 17
Views: 5463

Re: Anyone Gagged While Reading This?

Random question. If you use something like Voice Assistant to say a message while gagged, does it write the message in garble, write it in plain text or not at all?

Update: Trying it now(hand over mouth) and it just translates it into normal words it assumes you're trying to say. For example "Let ...
by illest
1 month ago
Forum: TUG Talk
Topic: Embarrassing times (all)
Replies: 28
Views: 15156

Re: Embarrassing times (all)

A update to this one, I've been super sloppy with my escapades lately 🤦‍♂️, to the point my wife definitely knows about my feminization kink now. At this point I'm not sure how much of it was unintentional and how much of it was kind of wanting to be found out. Last month was quite a bit of ...
by illest
1 month ago
Forum: TUG Talk
Topic: Question for straight dudes
Replies: 27
Views: 16739

Re: Question for straight dudes

Under normal circumstances it'd be a hard no. When I crossdress and in the moment of I'd be more willing to give it a go, but more for the humiliation aspect than having any attraction to the actual guy. I'd definitely prefer a woman or women though.
by illest
1 month ago
Forum: TUG Talk
Topic: Anyone here bisexual?
Replies: 22
Views: 16713

Re: Anyone here bisexual?



I'm kinda confused. Like I'm pretty sure I'm heterosexual just because under normal circumstances I'm not remotely attracted to men whatsoever and really see nothing about the male body attractive. However I crossdress and once crossdressing+bondage comes into play the Humiliation perks kick in ...
by illest
2 months ago
Forum: TUG Talk
Topic: Anyone here bisexual?
Replies: 22
Views: 16713

Re: Anyone here bisexual?

I'm kinda confused. Like I'm pretty sure I'm heterosexual just because under normal circumstances I'm not remotely attracted to men whatsoever and really see nothing about the male body attractive. However I crossdress and once crossdressing+bondage comes into play the Humiliation perks kick in and ...
by illest
2 months ago
Forum: TUG Talk
Topic: What is your Favorite Type of Person to Tie?
Replies: 67
Views: 74364

Re: What is your Favorite Type of Person to Tie?

Women, generally as girly as possible. Definitely make up, adorable outfit, spandex, latex, heels, garters, maid outfit, cheerleader outfit, booty shorts. Stuff that looks as opposite from masculine as possible. As a crossdresser myself I'm really about being dolled up before being bound; I feel the ...
by illest
2 months ago
Forum: TUG Talk
Topic: Spanking in Bondage
Replies: 28
Views: 17600

Re: Spanking in Bondage

It's one of those things that I never really thought hard into but that I always wanted to try. My wife did it once somewhat but I wasn't tied up. I've always wished there was a affordable machine or DIY device to simulste it.
by illest
2 months ago
Forum: TUG Talk
Topic: Shame and bondage
Replies: 28
Views: 16498

Re: Shame and bondage

So that brings me to a interesting story ifouor today. So a few months ago I shared with my wife that I did a little dressing occasionally but I wasn't sure it registered. Well I made a critical error that she discovered this morning. I left my false eyelashes on the night stand beside my bed ...
by illest
2 months ago
Forum: TUG Talk
Topic: "Forced" Feminization/Sissification Experiences and Thoughts
Replies: 32
Views: 28528

Re: "Forced" Feminization/Sissification Experiences and Thoughts


I've got some interest in this sort of thing. I like wearing stockings and over the knee/thigh highs socks, a corset, certain kinds of women's panties that have enough coverage for male anatomy, and I have a few kilts and skirts, even a pair of heeled boots. I'm not trying to look exactly like a ...
by illest
3 months ago
Forum: TUG Talk
Topic: Low Effort Torture
Replies: 14
Views: 10434

Re: Low Effort Torture

Sounds like you guys would have fun with a pump gag. He could blindfold you and every so often pump the gag at will to muffle you more and possibly make breathing a tad more difficult.
by illest
3 months ago
Forum: TUG Talk
Topic: What are you craving?
Replies: 112
Views: 98290

Re: What are you craving?


May try a self bondage session in the next couple days.
Thinking of a kneeling strappado. Haven’t done it like this before but sounds like it will work in my head.
Parts of it obviously easy: Frogtie legs. Probably a large ballgag, maybe duct taped over.
Vibrating butt plug.
Scarf blindfold ...
by illest
3 months ago
Forum: TUG Talk
Topic: Bondage Hypnosis
Replies: 10
Views: 8808

Re: Bondage Hypnosis




I started thinking about this topic again over the weekend, and then realised I had started a thread on it before. So I thought I'd resurrect it as perhaps new members have experienced it.

Has anyone had any positive experiences with bondage hypnosis YouTube videos?


Not to that extent ...
by illest
3 months ago
Forum: TUG Talk
Topic: Bondage Hypnosis
Replies: 10
Views: 8808

Re: Bondage Hypnosis


I started thinking about this topic again over the weekend, and then realised I had started a thread on it before. So I thought I'd resurrect it as perhaps new members have experienced it.

Has anyone had any positive experiences with bondage hypnosis YouTube videos?


Not to that extent, but I ...