Stories of Tie Up Games

MrGags wrote: 6 months ago I can definitely relate. I love how taboo it is, and the thought of how embarrassed I'd be if I were in bondage against my will really turns me on. In fact all of my fantasies involve being tied up and gagged "against my will".

Dpsiic wrote: 6 months ago @ShyTiedBoyReturns I can definitely relate to that. I grew up before videos, internet etc so I had no idea there was a whole community who felt like I I do. Grew up thinking I was a pervert. It took me five years to admit my love of bondage to my wife. Recently I sent some bondage stories I had written for a friend to a work colleague instead of some work information. Fortunately he realised it was not work related he didn’t read it and dumped it.

kiwi wrote: 6 months ago Shame is an interesting topic to me in how it relates to my love for bondage…

Grew up seeing bondage in tv and knew I liked whatever this was, even if I couldn’t articulate why. There definitely was shame attached to it, cuz I just inherently understood other people I knew didn’t think this way.

As I’ve gotten older and gained more understanding and appreciation for bondage, my attitude around the shame associated with it has also changed. Now, theres still some level of shame/embarrassment that comes whenever I am tied up and helpless, but with my fiancé it takes on a new dynamic where I actually enjoy being teased about being embarrassed/having that shame.

I guess it opened up another level of emotional (and physical technically I guess) vulnerability that makes our bondage sessions that much more fun now

captured_prize wrote: 6 months ago I relate to this very well. For me I also have the added stigma of crossdressing on top of that. But you know what, I like what I like and it does not hurt anyone. Don't deny this side of you, embrace it, otherwise you will just be miserable. It's good you decided to get back on the site. Remember, we're all here to share our love of bondage and support each other.

NR47 wrote: 6 months ago I can relate also. I started doing self bondage at maybe age 11. This was before internet and my only exposure was when I saw someone tied up on tv. I've always had an interest in tying up women and being tied by them. I remember when internet finally got going where I grew up, we had to use it at school or the public library. Still remember the embarrassment I felt when I was in the library using a computer and I turned around to see this angry old librarian looking at me in shock and horror, and on the screen in front of me was a woman in a tight dress bound with a ball gag in her mouth. As a teenager growing up in a conservative rural area I pretty much always felt like I was messed up. But little by little I began to realize that even some people I knew were into it. My parents were divorced and when I went to visit my dad I was looking for his stash of cigarettes and instead found rope and bandanas he had under the bed for playing with his girlfriend at the time. My girlfriend showed an unusual amount of interest in some toy handcuffs we'd bought at a fair which later turned into a great source of enjoyment for us. Over the years I've read so many articles on psychology and have realized that its an incredibly common fetish, and have met quite a few seemingly average people who are into it. But unfortunately in the areas where I've lived (Eastern Europe and the Midwestern United States) it's still seen for the most part as something wrong or taboo, so I only talk about it with my wife and a couple other people. I don't need anyone judging me about what I do in private. But I'm glad I was able to get rid of those feelings of shame imposed on me by the surrounding culture and very lucky to find a woman who enjoys bondage as much as I do.

ShyTiedBoyReturns wrote: 4 months ago

captured_prize wrote: 6 months ago I relate to this very well. For me I also have the added stigma of crossdressing on top of that. But you know what, I like what I like and it does not hurt anyone. Don't deny this side of you, embrace it, otherwise you will just be miserable. It's good you decided to get back on the site. Remember, we're all here to share our love of bondage and support each other.

Yeah I’ve been learning that lately, even if it’s taken posting a bunch of stuff on DA and lots of messages I’m definitely becoming more comfortable with this side of me as an adult. And the more I become a part of the bondage community, the more I realize that there was no reason to be embarrassed all those years growing up!

TasteTheSun wrote: 4 months ago Been reading this thread and just wanted to say I'm so freakin happy for you all nobody should feel ashamed of being who they are

Except PC players, they're all snobs

Jk jk lol

TasteTheSun wrote: 4 months ago Been reading this thread and just wanted to say I'm so freakin happy for you all nobody should feel ashamed of being who they are

Except PC players, they're all snobs

Jk jk lol

shyguy92 wrote: 4 months ago

TasteTheSun wrote: 4 months ago Been reading this thread and just wanted to say I'm so freakin happy for you all nobody should feel ashamed of being who they are

Except PC players, they're all snobs

Jk jk lol

SNOBS, you say?
Only because we're surrounded by peasants, you know...

meacham6 wrote: 4 months ago Liking bondage is a sexual fetish, and sex is naturally associated with shame for everyone. As people grow up, they get more comfortable with their sexuality and understanding that it's pretty common, and it's not really in their control what they're into.