Stories of Tie Up Games

As an adult I have always wanted to do a form of male on malr bondage weather it's GiD, TUGs, or any other situation. If anyone has experience in that matter I would love to hear your story and how you made it happen. Either post on hear or message me privately if you'd prefer. Thank you for your time and consideration.

That's kind of a vague request. Ultimately a lot of it comes down to the whole "how to find a Tug partner" question which I'm pretty sure there's been multiple threads about on here.

I've met up with a few guys for bondage play. Most were through hookup apps/sites, although I do exercise reasonable caution. I've also found some groups/events via Fetlife. It's probably worth adding a caveat to this in that the amount of guys I've actually met up with is pretty low compared to how much time I've invested looking.

It's also worth noting what you're looking for. Most guys I encounter are looking for sexual play, although some very much aren't and a few (myself included) will happily go either way. There's also plenty of other preferences and varying interests going on.

I don't think any of my experiences are really exciting enough to justify a story.

The first time I was tied up, was as a kid back in school. Another guy tied me up, and it was a nice experience, that I actually enjoyed. For many years since then, I had been fantasizing about being tied up by him again. That was something special!
By a coincidence my wife knew him, and she managed him to tie me up again (as a part of a sexgame) and that was sooo good being tied up by him again, even though we were about 20 years older

You would think M/m bondage would be easy to find but it is actually a pain in the ass to find even in a big city. Either too many subs or the Dom is less into bondage and more into domination and sex. That and your potential play partner is just so far away by distance or traffic or can not host that you just give up.

I personally prefer being tied up by women but I have considered the idea of being tied up by a guy. But I'm also only looking to be tied up. I'm straight as an arrow, so no sex. But I realize that most guys would be looking for sex and not just someone to tie up and stick in a corner for a couple of hours. It's just getting tiresome paying for a Domme to tie me up. I do occasionally get tied by women at play parties, but that's pretty infrequent.

I was tied up a few times in grade school. I mostly did the tying with various girls that were friends around the neighborhood and occasionally found myself getting tied up. Every time I was tied up though it was either by male friends, or a combination of male and female friends. Lately I've also been looking for guys to tie me up (there was a group on fetlife called straight guys getting tied by gay men) and I posted a few times on there. Most guys were looking for hookups or sex though. I never found anyone on the internet I've actually met up with, but I occasionally still try to find guys in my area that wanna tie me up. Maybe one day I'll find some success there lol

Ducttape1234 wrote: 8 months ago I was tied up a few times in grade school. I mostly did the tying with various girls that were friends around the neighborhood and occasionally found myself getting tied up. Every time I was tied up though it was either by male friends, or a combination of male and female friends. Lately I've also been looking for guys to tie me up (there was a group on fetlife called straight guys getting tied by gay men) and I posted a few times on there. Most guys were looking for hookups or sex though. I never found anyone on the internet I've actually met up with, but I occasionally still try to find guys in my area that wanna tie me up. Maybe one day I'll find some success there lol

There's definitely some guys that want zero sex/sexual stuff and are only interested in tyinging/being tied. I'm one of them. Sure I'll tease a guy by tickling or breathplay but for the most part, I enjoy the meditating aspects of it. Admittedly I have been kind of more open with allowing/doing certain things that fall into sexual nature but that's not something I'm fully into and would only consider it if the dom/sub/switch requests it and it's within agreed limits. Funny enough, after looking at your location, one of my bondage friends lives out your way. I won't disclose who it is or where exactly they live but I'll show him this post and perhaps he'll get in touch if he's interested.

Red86 wrote: 8 months ago

Ducttape1234 wrote: 8 months ago I was tied up a few times in grade school. I mostly did the tying with various girls that were friends around the neighborhood and occasionally found myself getting tied up. Every time I was tied up though it was either by male friends, or a combination of male and female friends. Lately I've also been looking for guys to tie me up (there was a group on fetlife called straight guys getting tied by gay men) and I posted a few times on there. Most guys were looking for hookups or sex though. I never found anyone on the internet I've actually met up with, but I occasionally still try to find guys in my area that wanna tie me up. Maybe one day I'll find some success there lol

There's definitely some guys that want zero sex/sexual stuff and are only interested in tyinging/being tied. I'm one of them. Sure I'll tease a guy by tickling or breathplay but for the most part, I enjoy the meditating aspects of it. Admittedly I have been kind of more open with allowing/doing certain things that fall into sexual nature but that's not something I'm fully into and would only consider it if the dom/sub/switch requests it and it's within agreed limits. Funny enough, after looking at your location, one of my bondage friends lives out your way. I won't disclose who it is or where exactly they live but I'll show him this post and perhaps he'll get in touch if he's interested.

Im also open to the tickling aspect and ive discussed some other things id be open to with some other people in the past lol but that would be super cool actually If you showed him this post. That would be appreciated thank you very much