Stories of Tie Up Games

So yeah, you read the subject, you know the question

I have a pair of quite thick white socks, not really that fit for the summer heat, but that I've been wearing precisely for using as stuffing in my next self-bondage session. Having worked sweat in them for quite some time, I don't want to waste the opportunity of a great gag that they bring, and as such I want to utilize them to the uppermost! Considering the fact that, besides being thick, they are also quite long (stretching generously over my ankle, yet not being quite tube socks) one of them would be enough to keep me from mouthing off.

I have never worked with a sock this voluminous before, so I ask for your help and tips as to how I should go about stuffing my yapper ( Myself being used to cleave gags, detective gags or stuffing gags that usually use thin dress socks)
Doms and subs alike ( and switched too!), when using socks like these do you stuff them whole...ball them up...stuff them in the cheeks...or...?
(Everything I have listed before are just terms heard in stories here, so advice from real life would be appreciated!)

And of course, since I will (hopefully) be working with such a large gag, safety will be put first. As such, I will only tie up my ankles and will be leaving my hands free, + the gag will not be held in by any tape or other material, so I can take it out easily should anything happen.

So don't worry about my safety, worry about my poor mouth which will have to taste all the days of filth!

I personally prefer using hankies for stuffing for this reason, most socks ( I do not wear ankle socks ) will be a bit too big to fit in the mouth completely. If I use a sock, I like to leave it hanging out above and below the cleave gag and subsequent layered wrapping holding it in. Kind of a way of showing just how well you are gagged.

I do like using a big long athletic sock with a hanky balled up in the center as a cloth ball gag. The hanky is inserted inside of the sock so there is no chance of it getting lodged in the throat.

I prefer to stuff most in the mouth and let some hang out so it flops around when struggling and I may be stuck with some going over my nose and being forced to smell it. Some times I use its partner sock to tie it around my mouth.
My preferred sock to gag with is a slouch sock something about it makes a perfect stuffing gag
Good luck with your gag and be safe

What would I ideally stuff my damsel’s mouth with? Either a sock or panties just pulled off of her. However most women I play with aren’t too keen on that, haha. So I have bandanas I use for stuffing.

I normally stuff my subs mouth with a big pair of satin panties that I am wearing. If I’m tying up somebody with a friend we can nornally stuff 2 pairs of panties in there.

Holly09 wrote: 2 years ago I normally stuff my subs mouth with a big pair of satin panties that I am wearing. If I’m tying up somebody with a friend we can nornally stuff 2 pairs of panties in there.

Oh no. That sounds horrible…

I like to stuff my mouth with either one dirty sock or a dirty pair of underwear if I want a tighter packed stuffing. Then, I’ll wrap layers of duct tape around my mouth, back of my head, and sometimes up my face over my ears and eyes. Then I’ll tie another piece of dirty laundry around my sealed mouth so that it’s just below my nose so that I have to smell it as I struggle and squirm on the ground. The harder I struggle, the more you have to smell it.

Ankle socks are the way to go. The perfect size for stuffing without having your victim choke.

D/u/c/t/t/a/p/e wrote: 2 years ago I like to stuff my mouth with either one dirty sock or a dirty pair of underwear if I want a tighter packed stuffing. Then, I’ll wrap layers of duct tape around my mouth, back of my head, and sometimes up my face over my ears and eyes. Then I’ll tie another piece of dirty laundry around my sealed mouth so that it’s just below my nose so that I have to smell it as I struggle and squirm on the ground. The harder I struggle, the more you have to smell it.

See you have the right idea. I tried to PM you but you have private messages turned off

Phantom1905 wrote: 2 years ago

D/u/c/t/t/a/p/e wrote: 2 years ago I like to stuff my mouth with either one dirty sock or a dirty pair of underwear if I want a tighter packed stuffing. Then, I’ll wrap layers of duct tape around my mouth, back of my head, and sometimes up my face over my ears and eyes. Then I’ll tie another piece of dirty laundry around my sealed mouth so that it’s just below my nose so that I have to smell it as I struggle and squirm on the ground. The harder I struggle, the more you have to smell it.

See you have the right idea. I tried to PM you but you have private messages turned off

ope, my bad g. I got that fixed.

Carefully and gently. Plus, don't leave your play partner unattended with a stuffed mouth. Even if their fantasy is to be left alone I'd always quietly keep an eye on them. If they're blindfolded they can zoom out in their personal fantasy world, while you enjoy watching them and listening of course.

Personally, I'd go for a handkerchief, something that fills their mouth without being irritating. Keep them quiet, but also keep them comfortable. Controlling whilst also being considerate. You want them to be enjoying it and want to be gagged again.

radarlove67 wrote: 2 years ago Carefully and gently. Plus, don't leave your play partner unattended with a stuffed mouth. Even if their fantasy is to be left alone I'd always quietly keep an eye on them. If they're blindfolded they can zoom out in their personal fantasy world, while you enjoy watching them and listening of course.

Personally, I'd go for a handkerchief, something that fills their mouth without being irritating. Keep them quiet, but also keep them comfortable. Controlling whilst also being considerate. You want them to be enjoying it and want to be gagged again.

Well said!

Conscientiousness and comfort go a long way. If you want folks coming back to be tied up again, its important to see things from their perspective occasionally.

leconteur wrote: 2 years ago

radarlove67 wrote: 2 years ago Carefully and gently. Plus, don't leave your play partner unattended with a stuffed mouth. Even if their fantasy is to be left alone I'd always quietly keep an eye on them. If they're blindfolded they can zoom out in their personal fantasy world, while you enjoy watching them and listening of course.

Personally, I'd go for a handkerchief, something that fills their mouth without being irritating. Keep them quiet, but also keep them comfortable. Controlling whilst also being considerate. You want them to be enjoying it and want to be gagged again.

Well said!

Conscientiousness and comfort go a long way. If you want folks coming back to be tied up again, its important to see things from their perspective occasionally.

I always try and imagine what's happening with my play partner, whether I'm being Dom or sub; but especially as the Dom. For me it's a massive turn-on to see how someone else is enjoying what's happening, so their comfort is important to me. Even if you're being a bit 'rough' it still should be fun and enjoyable.

radarlove67 wrote: 2 years ago
I always try and imagine what's happening with my play partner, whether I'm being Dom or sub; but especially as the Dom. For me it's a massive turn-on to see how someone else is enjoying what's happening, so their comfort is important to me. Even if you're being a bit 'rough' it still should be fun and enjoyable.

Love this, I have an old saying, the best ropetops have been at some point bottoms. There is no better way to know what someone is going to enjoy than by vetting it yourself first hand. It's always smoother imo to convince someone to try something if you can say, "I have worn that kind of gag, or I have been bound in that way before."

Holly09 wrote: 2 years ago I normally stuff my subs mouth with a big pair of satin panties that I am wearing. If I’m tying up somebody with a friend we can nornally stuff 2 pairs of panties in there.

This is the best gag ever!

I like billiard balls

If it cant fit in your mouth soak it in water - it will shrink.

I have a handkerchief fetish so it’s always handkerchief mouth stuffing tied in place with a tight handkerchief cleave gag and then layers on top.

I've come to love the natural sea sponge. When soaked, it fills the mouth perfectly. You can suck on it for some hydration. It tastes a little bit like the great big blue sea, giving a hint of vacation. You can chew on it as much as you want. Heavenly!

Very wise, and good advice!

I like using small clean ankle socks. From personal experience, the person I tie agrees on the size of the sock. Usually something small enough that's comfortable with either a loose cleave gag or a small piece of tape. For self bondage I prefer a small ankle sock as well usually with a few pieces of tape over it lol

Panties or pantyhose held in with a wrap around tape gag.

I use a knotted scarf gag, the knot being the stuffing. First, a small handkerchief size cloth is folded into a tight, small triangle, then it is placed in the midpoint of the scarf. I twist the scarf around so the triangle cloth is wrapped a few times then I tie a single overhand knot in it so that the triangle of handkerchief makes up the main inside part of the tied knot. This makes for a fairly good sized ball of a knot. Given the thickness of the scarves and handkerchiefs I use, I'd say it equates to a 1.75" ballgag when the knot is pulled fairly tightly. This can compress over time or even expand based on how long she wears it or if the particular girl salivates a lot. The latter results in swelling over time.

The knot is unevenly aligned so the scarf doesn't go through the middle of it like a strap from a ballgag, rather the knot sits on the outside of the span of the scarf; try this and you'll see what I mean if it's unclear. The advantage of this is that when the knot is put in her mouth it functions almost like a plug gag; it goes in further than the scarf that is placed between her teeth. If its big enough, it can minimize how much she can bite down to inhibit the gag's knot from going into the back of her mouth.

I use a thin but strong scarf fabric mainly because even after being wrapped around her head, it doesn't bulk up enough to ruin the look IMO. I also pick a length that allows me to place the knot in her mouth, bring the ends behind her head and then bring both ends around her head to cross again over the knot in her mouth. At this point I pull it tight to constrict the fabric and deepen the cloth knot in her mouth. I bring the ends behind her head again and tie it off at the base of her neck. Depending on the girl, and going under her hair, I'd say most I use are 26-28 inches long.

Make sure to tip her head up prior to wrapping as it shortens the distance between her mouth and the back of her neck when she's looking up. When you are done and her head returns to a level/straight ahead orientation, the scarf with naturally tighten and the knot will go further inside her mouth (even if she was biting the knot, though if its big enough, she might not be able to do that either). Keep this in mind when deciding how tight the initial placement is.