Website Migration Update


I moved the website to a new host, which I think will be more tolerant of the content this website hosts. Nevertheless, I do want to take a moment to remind everyone that the stories and content posted here MUST follow website rules, as it it not only my policy, but it is the policy of the hosts that permit our website to run on their servers. We WILL continue to enforce the rules, especially critical rules that, if broken, put this sites livelihood in jeapordy.

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by takeru
3 months ago
Forum: TUG Talk
Topic: Enjoying sleep paralysis
Replies: 4
Views: 2576

Re: Enjoying sleep paralysis

I myself would love to enjoy but that hasn't happened! I used to have them with grey alien hallucinations, scary af :lol: Not anymore

But interestingly, I do fancy it. There even are a couple of soundgasm audios featuring it :)
by takeru
6 months ago
Forum: Fictional Stories For Adults
Topic: Steph at the tickle studio: 15 minutes of tickle torture... M/F
Replies: 0
Views: 3022

Steph at the tickle studio: 15 minutes of tickle torture... M/F

Hello, I'm writing after a long long time. While I'm not sure how active I'd be, after years of being here and also the earlier tieupgames site, I'm also noticing my kinks might actually be more towards the side of tickling than bondage alone. So, if you know a tickle stories sites or forum, I'd be ...
by takeru
11 months ago
Forum: TUG Talk
Topic: Bondage and overall kink in mainstream media
Replies: 13
Views: 8827

Re: Bondage and overall kink in mainstream media


Strangely I feel like it's reversed in Japanese culture. Most anime scenes that portray bondage that I've seen do so in a light-hearted fashion. However a lot of irl scenes over there come across as hardcore and in some cases creepy.


Do you know if the IRL ones incorporate D/S? Or is it ...
by takeru
11 months ago
Forum: TUG Talk
Topic: Bondage and overall kink in mainstream media
Replies: 13
Views: 8827

Re: Bondage and overall kink in mainstream media


You mentioned that pain is a “mixed bag” for you. I’ve never tried anything involving impact play or pain, but recently have been thinking about opening up a bit just to see. Over the past couple of years, I’ve gotten into a couple “secondary” kinks—but nothing that gives me the pure ...
by takeru
11 months ago
Forum: TUG Talk
Topic: Bondage and overall kink in mainstream media
Replies: 13
Views: 8827

Re: Bondage and overall kink in mainstream media

What I am aching for in mainstream media is a depiction of bondage without domination and submission. Now, I'm happy media has begun to depict BDSM in some or the other form, and that allows us to easily open up or discuss things with our friends and partners. However, I find that it is primarily ...
by takeru
11 months ago
Forum: TUG Polls
Topic: How did you start out with BDSM very initially?
Replies: 23
Views: 19026

How did you start out with BDSM very initially?

I feel domination and submission is a bit overdepicted in mainstream media, compared to simple sensuality of being tied up or the aesthetics of seeing someone else be tied up. Which way are the people here leaning towards?

Now, yes, over the course of time, different desires mix into each other ...
by takeru
11 months ago
Forum: TUG Talk
Topic: Does anybody else daydream about being bound as soon as you ...
Replies: 6
Views: 2797

Re: Does anybody else daydream about being bound as soon as you ...

Thank you for all the responses so far! Indeed, on a second thought, the answer to this question should be obvious for users on this site :)!

And particularly, copperfox , that's a detailed response! Yes, I agree with pretty much all of it :)!

I think making bondage publicly acceptable would ...
by takeru
11 months ago
Forum: TUG Talk
Topic: Does anybody else daydream about being bound as soon as you ...
Replies: 6
Views: 2797

Does anybody else daydream about being bound as soon as you ...

... lay down? Or for those who prefer being bound to a chair, as soon as you sit in a chair?

There's just this insatiable urge that takes over me. I might drift off to sleep imagining I am tied up, or eventually changing my posture to one that isn't associated with bondage for me. But seriously, I ...
by takeru
11 months ago
Forum: TUG Talk
Topic: What member on this forum....
Replies: 25
Views: 20053

Re: What member on this forum....

I second @Miyuki. Had an awesome RP once upon a time :).

If I could become a woman, I'd love to be tied up and tormented by @JulieG or @BoundJana.

PS: I have had fun RPs with male members on the forum too, but this question seems to be looking for IRL tie ups ;)
by takeru
11 months ago
Forum: TUG Talk
Topic: When is the time you felt most helpless?
Replies: 20
Views: 15103

Re: When is the time you felt most helpless?

Last year, I tried some rope bondage with a good friend. Our ropework was a bit shabby, perhaps because the ropes we used were too thick. But, both of us wanted to try overstimulation, and when it came to my turn, I learnt what helplessness meant. After the first O, I wanted to be let out in a bad ...
by takeru
1 year ago
Forum: TUG Talk
Topic: where to meet people?
Replies: 35
Views: 19382

Re: where to meet people?

I don't know if I'm alone, but I find FetLife a bit... too sexualized. I don't know, it feels a bit too much nudity thrown in my face. Or at least that's how I feel it to be in my country. I love rope bondage and am into a few other niches, but the mainstream portrayal of BDSM just doesn't appeal me ...
by takeru
1 year ago
Forum: TUG Polls
Topic: Tied to a bed.
Replies: 41
Views: 53379

Re: Tied to a bed.

I usually like a face-up X or Y, because... as others have stated, it leaves the tied person vulnerable. I also do like to tease the back, so the face up position does leave a bit wanting. Now, I love to tease the front even more, so face down isn't an option!

There's another variant I find ...
by takeru
1 year ago
Forum: TUG Talk
Topic: Fictional vs. True TUG stories
Replies: 19
Views: 49275

Re: Fictional vs. True TUG stories


I think the ' real ' experience is much more clumsy.. silly, or a bit wacky sometimes or more intimate.


Oh, I really want to document some of my first IRL experiences and post them here anonymized with the involved person's consent. Yes, they have been fairly silly and clumsy and, smiling at ...
by takeru
1 year ago
Forum: TUG Polls
Topic: Who usually ties you up?
Replies: 33
Views: 25735

Re: Who usually ties you up?

Usually me.

Or a... hypno-dom.
Or me and a hypno-dom :) .

It was a friend for a short while last year, but alas, we are no more together.
by takeru
1 year ago
Forum: TUG Polls
Topic: How do you like arms tied
Replies: 32
Views: 31949

Re: How do you like arms tied






Just the way it looks and because it's comfortable and appealing perhaps. And that is the standard way of tying someone up.


Okay, that's an interesting take. I had once come across a description of what makes tying the hands behind the back while tickling so fun. Especially when the ...
by takeru
1 year ago
Forum: TUG Polls
Topic: Blindfolds?
Replies: 77
Views: 104519

Re: Blindfolds?


To be frank, I don't like how they look. A bad blindfold can actually spoil a good bondage scene by covering up the model's lovely face.


I recently came across blackout lenses. I haven't personally tried them, and I imagine I will require a looot of trust to be able to try them in a scene. But ...
by takeru
1 year ago
Forum: TUG Polls
Topic: How do you like arms tied
Replies: 32
Views: 31949

Re: How do you like arms tied




Hands behind back and as I said before, arms to the side. Still surprised how arms to side isn't in the poll.


I have seen the arms to the side a number of times. Could someone try to describe why they like it that way?


Just the way it looks and because it's comfortable and appealing ...
by takeru
1 year ago
Forum: TUG Polls
Topic: How do you like arms tied
Replies: 32
Views: 31949

Re: How do you like arms tied

Terry wrote: 1 year ago Hands behind back and as I said before, arms to the side. Still surprised how arms to side isn't in the poll.
I have seen the arms to the side a number of times. Could someone try to describe why they like it that way?
by takeru
1 year ago
Forum: TUG Talk
Topic: Thoughts on bare feet
Replies: 26
Views: 20412

Re: Thoughts on bare feet

I love tickling, so I certainly prefer bare feet for both of us; I'm a switch. Although, I actually like to tie them with socks or some footwear on, and then remove them over the course of the scene while the bottom is tied up and helpless. I also like the sensualnside of bondage, so feet massage is ...
by takeru
1 year ago
Forum: TUG Polls
Topic: Favourite binding material.
Replies: 62
Views: 111435

Re: Favourite binding material.

Another vote for ropes!

My first love are ropes! My long term relationship is also with ropes! They are handy. They come in all sizes and textures. Cotton ropes for comfy snug karadas. Jute ropes if I am feeling up for some zoning out. Nylon and synthetic for waterproofing. The rope ends work as ...
by takeru
1 year ago
Forum: TUG Videos
Topic: ASMR Bondage (All)
Replies: 6
Views: 12108

Re: ASMR Bondage

I often wish for longer ones. So, the ones I end up checking out are mostly by Hypnodoms - TheSecretSubject, KinkyShibby, The Only Hypnotist, Ultrahypnosis, to name a few. But even then, the shorts ones are usually cute and wholesome :D!
by takeru
1 year ago
Forum: Suggestions and Comments
Topic: Make forum registered user access only
Replies: 39
Views: 36887

Re: Make forum registered user access only

Wherever we go, and whichever tier we use, I guess the main issue is we want to prevent or minimize bots from overloading the website. For this, as blackbound suggested, Cloudflare seems like the best bet: https://www.cloudflare.com/application-services/products/bot-management/

There are also some ...
by takeru
1 year ago
Forum: Suggestions and Comments
Topic: Make forum registered user access only
Replies: 39
Views: 36887

Re: Make forum registered user access only

I see, yeah, captchas can be annoying, at least if they are not well-designed.

Yup, hoping this gets resolved soon!
by takeru
1 year ago
Forum: Suggestions and Comments
Topic: Make forum registered user access only
Replies: 39
Views: 36887

Re: Make forum registered user access only

@tiedinbluetights, won't (strong enough) captchas on login/register page not help to prevent bot logins?
by takeru
1 year ago
Forum: Suggestions and Comments
Topic: Make forum registered user access only
Replies: 39
Views: 36887

Re: Make forum registered user access only



I think I'll let admins celebrate the New Year and then make the announcements about whatever happened. It's still great they took out the time to fix it even at the end of year.

That admins don't make such announcements. Furthermore, they haven't logged on in several weeks. The issue hasn't ...